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General Advice / Re: Is it reasonable to stop contact - Safeguarding Issue
« Last post by unprodigal on June 25, 2017, 10:14:14 PM »
Once a child turns 9 years-old it isn't deemed inappropriate to share a room with them ov bright. Stopping overnight contact on these grounds, until something more appropriate is found would be considered reasonable and in the best interests of the child.
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Still 30 degrees here. I'd like another ouzo please barkeep.
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General Advice / Re: Hi
« Last post by theaqueen on June 20, 2017, 06:16:59 PM »
Hello Penny Welcome Here :)
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General Advice / Chargeback on property
« Last post by IRISH EYES on June 19, 2017, 01:28:09 PM »
Hello all,

Has anyone got or had a charge back put on by the courts?

Have you ever challenged it and had a result?

I am looking into this now and a solicitor has told me that it is one of the worst court orders she has seen and so she has confirmed that 15 years ago i didn't get a very good 'deal'.  She has also informed me that it would cost me a lot of money to contest this court order, but i can't sit back and just allow myself to not fight for what is maybe a just cause.

My main problem is that my ex kept his pension and will receive a large lump sum and a considerable pension, but i will never be able to build a pension like his as i have been looking after the children. 

I am just worried for my future and wondered if anyone has any advice?

Thank you in advance.

M

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South East & London / Re: South east London mums
« Last post by WT4 on June 15, 2017, 11:36:06 AM »
Hello Liaelle

Which trip have you booked?
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Separation & Divorce / Re: An introduction
« Last post by WT4 on June 15, 2017, 11:33:47 AM »
Hello Pinkpoppy

Let me suggest that the first step is to understand that it is not the man you miss, rather it is the termination of a complex collection of hopes & dreams that is causing you to grieve.

There will be times you feel immense anger ... these too will pass and you will find yourself feeling nothing towards your ex.  Complete indifference.

Hang in there.
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General Chat & Trivia / Re: SWK Pub now open - all welcome ! What can I get you ?!
« Last post by WT4 on June 15, 2017, 11:28:40 AM »
Ahh, there you are ... and who are you calling a bad influence .. pot/kettle :D

Severn was a nice gentle camp, wasn't it ... all shenanigans safely tucked away.

Not long till New Forest.
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Separation & Divorce / An introduction
« Last post by Pinkpoppy on June 13, 2017, 11:43:53 AM »
Hi folks,
I'm new here and wanted to introduce myself rather than just lurking. I'm 42 and have 3 children 4,5 and 7yrs. I asked my husband to leave after 7 years of marriage and about 2-3yrs of unhappiness. He stopped having any interest in communicating with me, stopped helping with the house or the kids and became very good at twisting situations so I was to blame. I now think he has many narcissistic traits I didn't recognise at the time. Although he left (finally) two months ago, in many ways I feel a lot worse than I did straight after he left. Most days (and nights) I wake feeling an awful emptiness in the pit of my stomach and cannot imagine ever feeling happy again. I would love to stay married but my head reminds me what an abusive and damaging relationship it was, I know nothing would change. I have forced myself to post on here because I'm feeling particularly hermit-like at the moment which I know is not a good thing. In other relationships pre children I would have stopped any contact with an ex but obviously now due to the children this cannot happen so frequent contact keeps opening the wounds.

Please tell me happy stories of dealing with a breakup with this kind of man (a narcissist) and give me hope that I'll feel happy and attractive again.

Leanne xx

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South East & London / Re: South east London mums
« Last post by CB2 on June 12, 2017, 08:13:00 PM »
Hi

It is not as active as it use to be, Facebook has taken over, but there are still some help posts on here.

I have been doing SWK since my son was about 6 and he is now 16, still comes with me :)

Elaine
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Holidays, locations, how it works... / Re: NYE 2017 anyone else?
« Last post by CB2 on June 12, 2017, 08:10:52 PM »
As you say a bit early, but well done for booking, it is always a popular event.  A great start to a New Year  :)
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